Does a spell to find my soulmate considered as Black-magick

[CondurerMan]

If i conduct a spell to find my soulmate is that considered balck-magick?

[Sequoia]

I suppose it would all depend on the spell. . . . but to me, it wouldn't be.
Besides, what do you mean by "black magick"? Evil? Dark? they're not always synonomous hehe.

btw, if it hasn't yet been said, Welcome!! ^_^

[Lily Mai]

I think that as long as you are not creating a false emotion in someone, that its ok.

[Shadowulfe]

i would say it is Okay. Heck, if casting a spell to find your soulmate is considered black-magick than im guilty as charged!

[Shadowulfe]

i would say it is Okay. Heck, if casting a spell to find your soulmate is considered black-magick than im guilty as charged! I mean heck you arent casting a spell to win the love of one paticular person. you are just trying to find the person you are meant to be with. anyway i hope this helps you

Blessings,
Shadowulfe

[Margie]

I'd say it's what YOU think it is. Who can tell you it's black or white but you. Why does it have to be black or white? IMO it doesn't.

[ShadowCat]

I think that anything that is in line with the Rede is okay. I dont think you are doing anything wrong by simply trying to find your soulmate, as long as you dont toy with others emotions by, for instance, influencing someone you like so that they become your soulmate. An ye harm none, do what ye will. Hope I've helped :)

[CondurerMan]

I was a bit worried that i will draw dark-energy to myself by doing it, but your tought on the matter have helped a-lot.

thenks :)

[Lavender]

Another point to consider is what is your definition of soulmate? I see "soulmate" is a soul that you're connected to...like a soul twinning. It may not necessarily be a wife or husband or lover. Your soul mate may not even be in this reincarnation of your life. They may be different things to your soul in other reincarnations. That's just my belief. :)

[Myst]

Originally posted by Wildchild
Another point to consider is what is your definition of soulmate? I see "soulmate" is a soul that you're connected to...like a soul twinning. It may not necessarily be a wife or husband or lover. Your soul mate may not even be in this reincarnation of your life. They may be different things to your soul in other reincarnations. That's just my belief. :)

Exactly. :)

[Lavender]

Another thing, I think it's ok to do a spell to open yourself up to your soulmate. Perhaps something to help you be more atuned to the experience. I think you will instinctlively know when you meet up with your soulmate.

[Lily Mai]

Soulmates are an interesting topic. In my opinion if you are meant to be with someone you will find them in your next life, and the life after that etc.

[phoenixsong]

How could magick to bring together two people who are meant to be together be bad?

Are you thinking of the commonly stated principle that 'Love Magick is Bad!!!'?
That means that you shouldn't cast a spell on someone to make them fall in love with you, as that is manipulative, messing with emotions, etc.

[NeoPhoenix]

Sorry for cutting in but, this is interesting because, I posted a similar topic at Wicca.nu concerning any magickal way to find your soulmate, and if it's not too much truoble could you post spell sugestions or links to spells concerning soulmates.

[kittiepoetrygod]

Found my soul mate throught my church, beileve it or not. she was a stray cat ... since shes been fixed ... or broken would be a better term ... but If you meant a person, I would suggest you look at the whole ballpark, not just the row your sitting in!

PS, My cats relationship with me is in now way sexual ... soul mates doesn't necessarily imply oh oh baby baby love ... ;). :eek:

[ShadowCat]

NeoPhoenix,

For a soulmate spell go could try this: http://www.zealmag.com/newissue/wicca-spells-2.html although i have to say it doesn't seem all that good to me. But you'll get the idea. I think the most powerful spells are ones that you create yourself so try that first!! Hope I have helped! :)

[Demeter]

Also remember that you can have multiple soulmates! Maybe somebody that was your sister in a previous life is your best friend in this one, and somebody that was your worst enemy (but karmically linked to you) could be your dog or your brother in this one. I think the term "soulmate" is often understood to be roughly equivalent to "true love", but it isn't. It can be much, much more. And less. If you're looking for a "true love", then cast the spell for that, and you've got a much better chance of getting what you want.

[Kadynas]

I agree with Demeter...there's a variety of different soulmates in our lives... Some are friends, some are family, some are lovers.
I've been blessed in that I have be able to find my true love...sometimes you just gotta wait for the timing to be right. You'll definitely know when it's real...:D

For awhile, this was an obsession with me, and I read quite a lot on the subject. One thing that seemed to be repeated quite often is that if you want to meet your soulmate sooner, the best way is to advance yourself on your spiritual path in life, finding your true passion, and this will draw your other half to you or something. Sorry it's a little fuzzy, I haven't read any of it in awhile...:)

[TheTheologin]

As long as you're not saying "I want < someone's name> to be my soulmate, to love me forever" then no it is not. If you are making a general statement like: "Attract my true love and soulmate to me. Show me whom the person is." It is not concidered black magick because you are not trying to twist anothers emotions.

[Myst]

You couldn't pay me to do a spell like this. Your lifemate (not soulmate, as someone illustrated) may exist out there but obviously it's not your time to know them or you would already. I wouldn't play with things like that because I know you have lessons to learn before you meet that person.

[white_draco]

It's your intent that matters....dark thoughts and intent make a dark spell, good and bright thoughts make a lighter spell.....imo....

- White Draco -

[~**foxglove**~]

I believe that this is, quite simply, one of those things you should not force due to impatience, loneliness or curiosity. I myself have a great belief in soul mates (in all their variations), but to me, half the beauty of it is to stumble upon them when you least expect it. To me, in a sense, what you are suggesting is like peeking at the gift before you're meant to open it. No surprises, no real enjoyment. And sure, people could argue that there is nothing wrong with that, because after all, the present is for you and there's still that element of surprise. But would you truly appreciate it as much as you would at the right moment? It's debateable, but I'm more in favour of the 'good things take time' approach.

As Myst said, 'obviously it's not your time or you would know them already'. Let it happen naturally.