just a little energy...

[Mirrored Wolf]

my ex(fiance), who says she still loves me more than anything, but just wants to see if she can be happier with someone else is now completly ignoring me for her new boyfriend, and its not like, oh i'll talk to you a little its , no, im not going to say a single word to you at all... i still love her with my heart and soul... and it hurts to know she doesnt love me back as much.. i just need a little energy to keep from having another emotional breakdown because of this whole thing.....

[magick186]

my ex, who says she still loves me more than anything, but just wants to see if she can be happier with someone else is now completly ignoring me for her new boyfriend, and its not like, oh i'll talk to you a little its , no, im not going to say a single word to you at all... i still love her with my heart and soul... and it hurts to know she doesnt love me back as much.. i just need a little energy to keep from having another emotional breakdown because of this whole thing.....
its okay, I'll be your new gf! :tongueout


im just playing, seriously, shes not worth stressing over hon :uhhuhuh:

:hugz: x1000

[Pesha]

do not allow this to stress you and make you unhappy. Energies of acceptence and peace flow to you.

BB
DS.

[QUEEN OF THE DAMNED]

my ex(fiance), who says she still loves me more than anything, but just wants to see if she can be happier with someone else is now completly ignoring me for her new boyfriend, and its not like, oh i'll talk to you a little its , no, im not going to say a single word to you at all... i still love her with my heart and soul... and it hurts to know she doesnt love me back as much.. i just need a little energy to keep from having another emotional breakdown because of this whole thing.....
This....

my ex(fiance), who says she still loves me more than anything

and this...

but just wants to see if she can be happier with someone else

.....Does not make sense honey.

I dont want to be mean, and certainly am not trying to be, but she doesn't care about you as much as she says she does or she wouldn't be doing what she is doing.

She may love you. I love a lot of people. But I am only in love with one person.
I used to be very confused about the difference between those two things...loving someone and being in love with someone. It is different.

She doesn't want to be with you if she is trying out other people. Trust in me that this pain you are feeling will pass. Dont try so hard with her. She doesn't deserve it. The harder you try with this girl (and I am speaking about your past experiences with her too) the more she thinks you will be on the sidelines for her. The more she thingks she can use you.
A lot of people keep someone on the bench...by this I mean that instead of putting you in the game with her, she keeps you on the bench just in case she needs you in the future and because it is nice to be loved and wanted unconditionally.

:hugz: honey this pain will pass. I can practically guarentee if you got a new girlfriend for long enough she would shower you with attention and love and niggle at you to break it off and then (if you did) would behave the same way that she is now.

We all want to be loved. But she is using you honey :hugz: time to move on and forget about her in a romantic way. She will always try to pull you back to her when you try to cut the ties, but you must be strong to survive this and get out of this terrible pattern. It is only hurting you.

I'm sure she says it hurts her too, but if it hurts her so much......then shy does she do it? She is not in love with you.

You are a great guy with a heart of gold you deserve so much light and love in your life (even if you dont think that you do, I'm telling you) you will find it if you seek it. I don't believe you will get what you deserve or what you want from your ex.


Ghost Wolf, you are:
sweet
kind
intelligent
creative
imaginative
beautiful -on the inside, I know......I haven't seen the outside ;)
bold
caring
willing to stand up for your beliefs and ideals
a great catch!
I am eternally here for you mate. :flowers:

[BrigidMoon]

my ex(fiance), who says she still loves me more than anything, but just wants to see if she can be happier with someone else is now completly ignoring me for her new boyfriend, and its not like, oh i'll talk to you a little its , no, im not going to say a single word to you at all... i still love her with my heart and soul... and it hurts to know she doesnt love me back as much.. i just need a little energy to keep from having another emotional breakdown because of this whole thing.....

_pounce_

[Vivienne]

Such a painful situation for you to bear, but one can never control the behaviour of others, only one's own reaction to it. As hard as it may be, for your own benefit, try to let go. To cling to your desires is to create your own suffering. She is persuing her own happiness, and you can do the same for yourself.

Try to remember that love is not possession. She may very well love you, as there are many different facets of love, but not in the way that you would like. You have demonstrated to yourself that you are capable of love, how about opening yourself to blessing someone else with it? Love is infinite and boundless, so bless the world with yours.

May the Goddess enfold you in her gentle arms, and bring lightness to your heart.

Namaste,
Vivienne

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Here's some energy & kisses! :hugz: Good luck & keep in there :)

[Teresa]

:hugz: Sending energies!

[Brenda]

sending positive energy

[Ishtara]

Sending you strength and comforting, positive energies :hugz:

[Mirrored Wolf]

i know i should move on but...... i've never been happyer than i was when we were together, i was like.. bouncing off the walls happy and now im soooo depressed..... i get butterflies in my stumach when she talks to me still and my heart skips when she say's i love you and..... just.. when she hugs me or like.. kisses my cheek or something its like... its never happened before.... everytime i start thinking of how we arent together i start crying... its horrible ...

[QUEEN OF THE DAMNED]

i know i should move on but...... i've never been happyer than i was when we were together, i was like.. bouncing off the walls happy and now im soooo depressed..... i get butterflies in my stumach when she talks to me still and my heart skips when she say's i love you and..... just.. when she hugs me or like.. kisses my cheek or something its like... its never happened before.... everytime i start thinking of how we arent together i start crying... its horrible ...

I know honey, I've been there too, you poor thing :hugz:

But realistically if she wants to be with someone else, or wants to try being with someone else then what future do you have together? I dont want to be harsh but you've been feeling this pain for a long time now and it will only stop after you have moved on. (obviously not immediately, but then you can focus on other things in your life)

[God]

I send you balance and clarity.


- Timara