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Blondie
September 18th, 2005, 07:06 PM
I'm hoping somebody can help me out deciphering this:

Every weekend for the past few weeks I've had dreams about my ex boyfriend. Some of them I can remember shot for shot, some barely at all.

I found it odd the first weekend for him to suddenly pop into my subconcious but made little of it. The second night I had another couple of dreams about him and it's happened every weekend since.

Last night's "main dream" included him and I sitting on the bed in my room at my parent's house. He was holding my hands saying how he wanted to marry me, but of course not yet. I didn't say much throughout the dream (to my recollection). After he said that, my attention focused upon a swarm of ladybugs in the room. Crawling on me, slightly irritating me. It was quite a sight! I remember yelling that I needed to get some bug spray post haste.

Other dreams have included him and I talking over messenger and him meeting my Dad persisting that we're back together.

We broke up a few months ago and it's been - hands down - the hardest breakup I've had to date. But it's odd, after I've recouped and I'm starting to feel OK about things that these bizarre paterns and reconcilation dreams swipe about.

Teresa
September 18th, 2005, 09:25 PM
Sounds like you still have some healing to do within and your subconcious is letting you know that You have not completely dealt with this.

Blondie
September 24th, 2005, 08:57 PM
I kind of subscribe to that and I kind of don't.

Of course, I'm not a fan of what went on post relationship, however I've identified what went wrong and the lessons this opportunity imbodied. I'm not grieving anymore.

I'm still mystified by this pattern. I won't be thinking about him all day - and then, wham! - I'll have a vivd dream. But it's only on either Friday or Saturday nights.