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LadyTrinity
October 11th, 2005, 08:44 AM
I had a horrid dream..

In my dream I hesitated to give my son to his dad for the weekend out of the normal fears I have during waking state, but to obey the judge I let him go thinking I was doing the right thing.
My ex and his gf was driving with my son in the back seat of their SUV and my ex's gf took off his glasses and accidently bent the ear pieces forward and broke them. He couldn't see without his glasses, and drove right into an incoming transport. My ex and his gf lived but my son did not survive the crash. :wah:
During the next court date the judge says in the court room as I am crying, This custody issue is terminated since the child involved has passed away.
I then fainted in the court room and woke up.

Such a horrible, horrible dream! What does it mean? :sniffsnif

Caradne
October 11th, 2005, 09:55 AM
It sounds like normal anxiety playing itself out to the nth degree. Deep breath! :)

Nova
October 12th, 2005, 11:11 PM
I would say it's just a normal stress dream (NOT a premonition). Like Caradne said - breathing is a good idea. :hugz:

As for the meaning - possibly you have a basic moral, religious, ethical difference from your ex. Something you butt heads about. It could also be a callback to some shocking situation wherein you realized your differences. You may blame his new S.O. for his apparent lack of foresight and worry that she is clouding his judgment. Possibly you have unresolved guilt about your son being involved in a recent argument (even if the involvment was just you bringing him up). It could also be more normal guilt of him having to go through the divorce. The faint may be that you are avoiding dealing with these feelings.

Hope this helps! Or at least gives you somewhere to start for your analysis.

LadyTrinity
October 27th, 2005, 10:00 AM
I would say it's just a normal stress dream (NOT a premonition). Like Caradne said - breathing is a good idea. :hugz:

As for the meaning - possibly you have a basic moral, religious, ethical difference from your ex. Something you butt heads about. It could also be a callback to some shocking situation wherein you realized your differences. You may blame his new S.O. for his apparent lack of foresight and worry that she is clouding his judgment. Possibly you have unresolved guilt about your son being involved in a recent argument (even if the involvment was just you bringing him up). It could also be more normal guilt of him having to go through the divorce. The faint may be that you are avoiding dealing with these feelings.

Hope this helps! Or at least gives you somewhere to start for your analysis.



Wow! That's on indepth cause to the dream! thank you :hmmmmm: