A locker... thingy?

[Mirrored Wolf]

Okay, well, a few months ago, one of the most popular girls in my school died in a car wreck. Her locker, which happens to be in the same hallway as mine, is covered in paper, with writing and pictures all over it. My problem is... Every time I go near that particular locker, I get really really sick to my stumach, like i'm about to throw up... But ten times worse, and I get extremely sad, a little angry, but mostly just really really sad, even just standing in the area of the locker. (My locker is a few feet away) and, school is bad enough, because of all the kids, but the locker just... overwhelms everything. Any ideas on what to do?

[Kendrah]

It's probably because the locker is the focal point of a lot of the students hurt/anger/sadness. They direct it at the locker each time they go by so it's probably concentrated there. You walk by that and you can feel all that pain and anger and sadness.

You could try to either seal the locker or release all the energy.

[Lunacie]

It's probably because the locker is the focal point of a lot of the students hurt/anger/sadness. They direct it at the locker each time they go by so it's probably concentrated there. You walk by that and you can feel all that pain and anger and sadness.

You could try to either seal the locker or release all the energy.

Releasing all that energy sounds like a wonderful thing. If it hasn't been very long since she died, a lot of the kids, and teachers too, might not be ready to release their feelings of sadness and pain and anger yet, and they'll keep adding to the collection. But it doesn't have to become a mountain of feelings that overwhelm the sensitive people. How would you suggest that Mirrored Wolf go about releasing those energies?

[Pesha]

I am personally for sheilding it off. The reason being if the energies are openly released, some could accidentally spill on her. Not what is wanted here. Also placing wards around the locker would be my tactic. Just my POV.

[~*Ginger*~]

Well, being who I am, I'd proably go up, and hug it.

Maybe a rose quartz crystal in a sheer, drawstring bag, added with the other things there, would help.

[Lunacie]

Well, being who I am, I'd proably go up, and hug it.

Maybe a rose quartz crystal in a sheer, drawstring bag, added with the other things there, would help.

Being an Empath there is no way I could go up and hug it. But using the rose quartz to help transform the energies from sorrow and grief to remembered pleasures - without the need to expose oneself to the unhappy energies? That sounds like a marvelous idea. :thumbsup: I don't think about using rocks or stones nearly often enough.

[~*Ginger*~]

I'm strange that way.

But, for me, it would be the love radiating from the area, that would be the biggest factor, more so than the hurt and saddness, though, I've no doubt they would play apart as well.

Maybe, even the fact of being an empath, being able to feel it, take it and release it.

I'm only saying what I'd more than likely do, not really trying to encourage anyone else to do so, we all handle things in different ways.

*Another thought*

Maybe talking with the parents, seeing if there's any type of poem, or writting that the girl herself wrote, or something of hers, that could be placed amoung the other things on the locker.
Maybe, just maybe, that's what's missing from this locker site.
Maybe, if the other's had something they could see, added from her, to thier own memorial would help their feelings as well.

More than likely, there are other's there that feel these same things, and none of them realise that there are other's about, that share these feelings.

[Lunacie]

That's a good idea as well, adding something of the dead girl's to the memorial - as long as it isn't one of those teen-age angsty things, eh?

[~*Ginger*~]

That's a good idea as well, adding something of the dead girl's to the memorial - as long as it isn't one of those teen-age angsty things, eh?

No, not any type of "teen-age angsty things". :) (I'm not really, even sure what that may be myself)

I think that if the matter is delicately taken to the parents, that they would chose the appropriate item, to be the girls addition.
Maybe go straight to it, knowing it's just the right thing to be added.

[Lunacie]

No, not any type of "teen-age angsty things". :) (I'm not really, even sure what that may be myself)


What, when you were a teenager didn't you write any of that "the world's just not fair" poetry?

I still feel that way at time, I just don't wrote poetry about it anymore. ;)

[~*Ginger*~]

oh!

hmmm... _inabox_
I had no idea there was an age limit on that sort of creation.

I, sometimes used words, sometimes used paint brushes, or pastels, or different colored thread, and lived in a purple, fluffy cloud.
:abbed:

[Lunacie]

:lol: I'm not saying there's an age limit, just that it seems to be a "stage" that most teens go through. Maybe some grow out of it. Maybe some don't.