Another Question

[Phobik]

I have another question...in the Wiccan Rede it says "An' it harm none,do what ye will!" what happens if I do harm someone. An example of this is, say I want to break up with my girlfriend(no saying I want to cause I love her unconditionally!!!!) I know it will hurt/harm her but its hurting me going out with her....just an example.....what would happen or what should I do if that happens? Also I have a few people antagonizing me and I think its going to lead to them fighting me.....should I fight back or should I just let them beat me up? Cause I know I can stand up for myself...

What should I do if that happens? Im confused???

[slovene_gds]

Originally posted by Phobik
I have another question...in the Wiccan Rede it says "An' it harm none,do what ye will!" what happens if I do harm someone. An example of this is, say I want to break up with my girlfriend(no saying I want to cause I love her unconditionally!!!!) I know it will hurt/harm her but its hurting me going out with her....just an example.....what would happen or what should I do if that happens? Also I have a few people antagonizing me and I think its going to lead to them fighting me.....should I fight back or should I just let them beat me up? Cause I know I can stand up for myself...

What should I do if that happens? Im confused???

MM~
Well, I don't know what to say about the girlfriend question. But, with defending yourself, that's cool. You ARE allowed to defend yourself, as long as you've been attacked first, wether it be magickally or physically.

BB~
Bast

[Myst]

Most people feel the Rede isn't something you're meant to adhere to no matter what you want. It is good advice that you think of when making a decision. You have to take it into account and figure out what's more important.

In this case if your relationship was harming you then you aren't meant to be together and you're harming her more by pretending to still love her. I know I'd be more hurt to find my bf had been lying to me then to be broken up with.