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Lovehound
July 23rd, 2006, 12:37 PM
I'm not sure where else to put this, but for those who attend Episcopal churches as I do, this news may very well be quite welcome. So I thought I'd share it.


LITTLE ROCK, Ark. (AP) - Episcopal churches in Arkansas can offer blessing ceremonies for gay couples, the state's bishop said in a letter to clergy.


"It is my belief that seeking ways of recognizing and blessing faithful, monogamous same-sex relationships falls within the parameters of providing pastoral concern and care for our gay and lesbian members," wrote the Right Rev. Larry Maze, bishop of the 14,000-member Episcopal Diocese of Arkansas.

Maze noted in his letter sent to clergy Wednesday that no other national or state Episcopal leaders have produced or approved official rites for the blessings of same-sex unions.

He said the ceremonies will be local observances in each church, not approved formal rites. Arkansas has banned gay marriage, so same-sex couples will have no legal standing in the state.

Two churches — St. Michael's Episcopal Church in Little Rock and St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Fayetteville — plan to offer the ceremonies.

Maze — who was among the bishops who approved the election of an openly gay bishop, the Right Rev. V. Gene Robinson of New Hampshire — is set to retire later this year.

At its 2003 national convention, church representatives passed a resolution in favor of allowing churches to explore the option of offering blessing ceremonies for gay couples. But at its convention in Ohio this year, leaders passed a resolution telling dioceses not to elect another gay bishop. The most recent convention did not address blessing gay couples.

Most Anglican archbishops believe gay relationships violate Scripture, and many broke ties with the U.S. church over Robinson's election.

Several Episcopal dioceses that consider gay relationships sinful are distancing themselves from the U.S. church over the election as presiding bishop of Nevada Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori, who will be installed Nov. 4, because she supports ordaining partnered gays and blessing same-sex couples.

At St. Michael's in Little Rock, the Rev. Ed Wills said a same-sex couple is planning a blessing ceremony that is tentatively set for September.

"God is about community, about belonging, about a relationship," Wills said. Couples are blessed in the church "not just so that they can be special but that they can be a blessing to other people."

The Rev. Lowell Grisham of St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Fayetteville, said no one has requested a blessing yet, but that he expects a ceremony before the Episcopal general convention in 2009.

"My gay friends are very sensitive about the notion that we've been blessing animals for years and find it so difficult to bless their relationships," Grisham said.

Me, I am legally ordained via Universal Life Church and can perform legal marriage ceremonies. I am willing to do such ceremonies for gay couples, but in my state (FL) it isn't legal, to the best of my knowledge.

I'm hoping this serves as a precedent for other diocese to follow suit -- and soon, no matter which way you turn, you'll find that gay marriages (and I do think they should be called MARRIAGE because quite frankly religion does not have a monopoly on the term; more accurate would be to say that secular law does) are acceptable everywhere.

Yay for Arkansas! :boing: :boing:

wolfjan1
July 23rd, 2006, 12:45 PM
Once again, too much "christian" interest in what goes on in people's bedrooms. Never mind that couples have been together longer than most "straight American "Christian" families by 15 to 17 years. If one can sustain a lasting and loving relationship for that long, they deserve every Kudo they can get.
Blessed be

Lovehound
July 23rd, 2006, 01:31 PM
Once again, too much "christian" interest in what goes on in people's bedrooms. Never mind that couples have been together longer than most "straight American "Christian" families by 15 to 17 years. If one can sustain a lasting and loving relationship for that long, they deserve every Kudo they can get.
Blessed be

I think you seriously misunderstand. Your approach to this is entirely too shallow and coming at it from the wrong direction.

It's not about what people do in their bedrooms.

It's about celebrating rites of passage in life.

Birth is one - the welcoming of a new life into the community. For Jews, 8 days into life a male child is circumcised and receives his first experience of being "initiated" into the community of G-d. Christenings are something a Christian family would do to welcome the child into the Christian life and place him or her under G-d's protection.

Adolescence would be another - usually this is where one receives formal instruction in religion and is confirmed. The bar mitzvah is a good example of this. I myself was confirmed and baptized in the United Methodist Church at age 13.

Marriage is another. This is celebration of the union of two people before G-d, who just can't contain themselves any more, they love each other so dearly they want to profess it before G-d and the congregation and formalize their relationship.

Retirement from public life is another transition people go through that might be celebrated with a blessing of some sort or other.

Death is the final transition out of this life.

I so wish people wouldn't always look for the negative. Because marriage is something that is not limited to just Christians, one could say that ALL religions that have marriage rites of ANY kind (INCLUDING HANDFASTINGS) are worrying too much about what goes on in people's bedrooms. Would you dispense with marriage altogether?

Do people not understand religious rites AT ALL around here??

David19
July 23rd, 2006, 03:47 PM
I think it's a great thing, not just 'cause i'm gay too, but it's about time that gay people (& all LGBT people) were able to get married.

Now, if the U.S. government would just recognise them as legal marriages, then things could get a lot better.

Thanks for posting this :).