Chart Request

[coeur]

Now I know that I've recieved a chart before, but that was several months ago. I would eternally grateful if someone read my chart with a leaning toward the future. What is to come? And of course that cliche question: What is to come in love?

Birthdate: March 25th, 1987
Birthtime: 4:00am
Birthplace: Dalianhe, China (Liaoning Province)

Thank you in advance!

[belgianmoonguy]

Your chart could be intresting in relocation astrology
Where do you live in Virginia, if i may know...

Anyhow
With Saturn going through your 7th house (i have 19°01' Aquarius Rising, is this right) there could be a restriction or obstacles in serious love matters, or just a stability you never found...

I think you're some kind of jump into it and run afterwards...
You have sun in Aries, so your main goal is self fulfillment and growth... Off course you'll have other people in your life, An Aries person is where the action is, or when there's no action, they create it on their own...

With Descendant Leo, you seek someone who seems larger then life, someone who likes attention, being admired, but also someone loyal... But with Venus in Aquarius in 1... little stability could be found in your love life... you could be hopelessly drawned to people who don't seem right for you or who don't fit with you in a million light years... but they have to original and not the average type of romantic for you...

Someone who begins to talk about kids and marriage in the first three months, will get you running to the hills... which could surprise yoiur partners, cause they sometimes don't notice that love of freedom in you (you have Moon in Aquarius, but in 12... the moon is hidden away from the world (12th house))

But with Mars in Taurus, you could seek partners who bring stability... or may be create stability in your own life (you're an Aries Sun, with Aqua Moon, Rising and Venus, so little stability is in your own chart or life)...

[coeur]

Your chart could be intresting in relocation astrology
Where do you live in Virginia, if i may know...

I am currently attending the University in Charlottesville (zip 22904), though I spend half a year back home with my parents in Blacksburg (zip 24060) during breaks. I've never heard of relocation astrology before but it seems interesting...



Anyhow
With Saturn going through your 7th house (i have 19°01' Aquarius Rising, is this right) there could be a restriction or obstacles in serious love matters, or just a stability you never found...

I think you're some kind of jump into it and run afterwards...
You have sun in Aries, so your main goal is self fulfillment and growth... Off course you'll have other people in your life, An Aries person is where the action is, or when there's no action, they create it on their own...

My rising is Aquarius, and I am known to be...flighty and in general difficult to be in a relationship with (actually I've only been in one serious relationship and that only lasted for 2 months). I am constantly bogged down with wanderlust, where over the weekends, I just have to go out or else I feel like I'm going to explode. In fact, it doesn't even have to be on the weekends, it just happens whenever I don't have anything to do. I get pretty fidgety and cranky haha...


With Descendant Leo, you seek someone who seems larger then life, someone who likes attention, being admired, but also someone loyal... But with Venus in Aquarius in 1... little stability could be found in your love life... you could be hopelessly drawned to people who don't seem right for you or who don't fit with you in a million light years... but they have to original and not the average type of romantic for you...

Someone who begins to talk about kids and marriage in the first three months, will get you running to the hills... which could surprise yoiur partners, cause they sometimes don't notice that love of freedom in you (you have Moon in Aquarius, but in 12... the moon is hidden away from the world (12th house))

I'm thinking that larger than life would probably be someone who can control me to some extent, a task that would be pretty difficult. I get pretty snappy when people get in my way or try to make me do what they want me to do, and most people just walk away and don't bother anymore. That, and I'm pretty crazy most of the time and I am told that I live life at hyperspeed. So I suppose that would require someone who could keep up with me and will have the logic to know when to tie me down and drag me home.

I am attracted to assholes, but I wonder what type of girl isn't. Most of the guys I'm interested in have a large scope of knowledge and a concern for humanity in general. I like my men well-read and intelligent. Unfortunately this usually results in really cocky men. In addition, I can barely stand one date, much less stand something like marriage or children. Most of the time, I end up hating someone by the end of the first date, because they seem so clingy (even if that's not true at all). I just keep thinking about the first date possibly leading to the next 500 dates of my life and I get really queasy knowing that I'll have to stick to one guy (and that one guy is going to expect me to stick with just him too!) for however long the relationship lasts. It's really a big problem because I hate going on dates of any and all kind, and I don't know how I'm supposed to learn about men that way...



But with Mars in Taurus, you could seek partners who bring stability... or may be create stability in your own life (you're an Aries Sun, with Aqua Moon, Rising and Venus, so little stability is in your own chart or life)...

I think I want someone who can rein me in for my own good. I really don't have that in my life because all the good people with good morals stay home and do wholesome things like play twister, while I'm out partying, getting drunk, etc. with badasses who wouldn't give a shit about your wellbeing. So I guess I just want someone who cares about me but isn't so good that he stays in all the time and watches football. I want him to be wild and crazy right next to me...but when I get to be too wild and crazy, I want him to have the ability to save.

Thanks for the reading! Let me know about the relocation astrology!

[belgianmoonguy]

I think I want someone who can rein me in for my own good. I really don't have that in my life because all the good people with good morals stay home and do wholesome things like play twister, while I'm out partying, getting drunk, etc. with badasses who wouldn't give a shit about your wellbeing. So I guess I just want someone who cares about me but isn't so good that he stays in all the time and watches football. I want him to be wild and crazy right next to me...but when I get to be too wild and crazy, I want him to have the ability to save.

Thanks for the reading! Let me know about the relocation astrology!

I recognize myself so much in this part...

An ex fling of me said... 'you are always looking for some good girl, but when you have one, she bores you to tears...'
But if i have someone who's like me... i need someone to control me...
But when someone controles me, then i need to escape somewhere (or to someone else)
But i'm not attracted to assholes... :hahugh: as i'm a straight male...
And me being a Cancer, i don't like staying at home a lot... but i'm young, may be that's why
And how do you learn something from males?
One nights?
Just learn to remember the name... otherwise you feel like a complete sl*t (yeah even guys can feel like that (certainly someone with a Guilt Moon and Guilt Rising (Guilt = Virgo)))...

I'll get back to you with the relocation stuff...

[business voodoo]

I am attracted to assholes, but I wonder what type of girl isn't.

girls who have truly healthy relationships with their fathers are not. but such a girl is rare indeed. there's a difference between the a$$h@les and those who are confident and secure in their abilities and knowledge. usually if there's an attraction to someone who treats you with less that equal respect, there's personal self esteem and insecurity issues.

and, definitely, BMG ... relocation due to the move from her birthplace is quite significant. complete change of energy.

[coeur]

An ex fling of me said... 'you are always looking for some good girl, but when you have one, she bores you to tears...'
But if i have someone who's like me... i need someone to control me...
But when someone controles me, then i need to escape somewhere (or to someone else)
But i'm not attracted to assholes... :hahugh: as i'm a straight male...
And me being a Cancer, i don't like staying at home a lot... but i'm young, may be that's why
And how do you learn something from males?
One nights?
Just learn to remember the name... otherwise you feel like a complete sl*t (yeah even guys can feel like that (certainly someone with a Guilt Moon and Guilt Rising (Guilt = Virgo)))...

I'll get back to you with the relocation stuff...

I don't really have guilt, actually. I'm probably one of the most guiltless people you'll meet. I get embarrassed, but I never get guilty. It might have something to do with being a chaote and decidedly not doing things that I feel guilty about doing (or just not having too much of a conscience in general), but I only really feel guilt on a theoretical level. That is, I know I should, but I don't. I've never been guilty about sex before, or personally felt particularly trashy or unvirtuous. It might have something to do with the fact that no one I know has ever expressed that they felt I was trashy or slutty. The worst comment I've ever recieved about my actions was 'heartbreaker,' an accusation I absolutely refuse to accept, but I'm not too offended by it.

I don't engage in one nights anymore because, well, they're not that interesting. Usually the sex is pretty bad and...it's boring. Not to mention it's potentially dangerous and not all that great in terms of your health (you never know what you might catch even with condoms). I still can't stand the prospect of a relationship, but I've mostly done tramping around. I guess if I ever want to have sex, I do have people willing to please me... But sometimes even a constant sex partner is too stifling for me.


girls who have truly healthy relationships with their fathers are not. but such a girl is rare indeed. there's a difference between the a$$h@les and those who are confident and secure in their abilities and knowledge. usually if there's an attraction to someone who treats you with less that equal respect, there's personal self esteem and insecurity issues.

and, definitely, BMG ... relocation due to the move from her birthplace is quite significant. complete change of energy.

I don't agree that I have an unhealthy relationship with my father, but I do think that many girls do and it could be a reason why girls in general end up with bad men. The reason why I'm attracted to assholes is because I'm pretty heartless myself and I am a completely asshole when it comes to matters of love. I don't call, I don't ask to do anything together, I don't make promises (especially any about exclusivity). I am also grossed out by romanticism in general (flowers, candies, etc.). I can't stand being pampered or raised on a pedestal or treated as anything other than an equal. If a guy treats me as less than an equal, I take it as an opportunity to prove myself otherwise.

In short I'm every girl that a guy doesn't want, and I've been told that I've got no sweetness in me at all. I have, once or twice, made men cry. So why I am attracted to assholes is that 1) they won't treat me like some princess, 2) they won't treat me any lesser because I am a woman, 3) they don't break very easily, and 4) they provide a challenge. In other words, I feel like if they aren't as horrendous as I am, they couldn't even begin to do things like take care of me or understand me.

[belgianmoonguy]

Is It Blacksburg in Washington, Montgomery or Rockbridge county?

And for someone who knows something of relocation astrology, do we only change the house cusps or do we also change the position of the planets...

Like
If we use Dalianhe, China
Coeurs Moon is @ 2°12' Aqua and her Rising is 19°01' Aqua, so she's definetely a 12th house Moon person there...

If we use Charlottesville, Virginia, USA
Coeurs Moon is @ 9°57' Aqua and her rising there is 12°27' Aqua, so she could there be a Moon Rising gal...

If someone knows the answer on this question, let me know...
GRtz
BMG

[coeur]

Is It Blacksburg in Washington, Montgomery or Rockbridge county?

And for someone who knows something of relocation astrology, do we only change the house cusps or do we also change the position of the planets...

Like
If we use Dalianhe, China
Coeurs Moon is @ 2°12' Aqua and her Rising is 19°01' Aqua, so she's definetely a 12th house Moon person there...

If we use Charlottesville, Virginia, USA
Coeurs Moon is @ 9°57' Aqua and her rising there is 12°27' Aqua, so she could there be a Moon Rising gal...

If someone knows the answer on this question, let me know...
GRtz
BMG

Blacksburg is in Montgomery county...

Also, when I immigrated, I immigrated to Blacksburg, and spent 12 years living there before attending university, if that makes a difference...

[KEishin]

And for someone who knows something of relocation astrology, do we only change the house cusps or do we also change the position of the planets...
To my knowledge, no, you do not move the planets.

[belgianmoonguy]

You are an interesting case for relocational astrology, coeur

Like in Dalianhe (your birth place in China), you have an 19°01' Aqua Rising, and an Mc (10th house cusp) of 6°51' Sagittarius... Pisces/ Virgo are intercepted in the 1st/ 7th house

If we shift you to Blacksburg, Montgomery County, Virginia
Rising becomes 10°27' Aqua, Mc goes to the last degree of Scorpio (29°06') and Aries/ Libra become intercepted in 2nd/ 8th house...

Other changes...
Saturn is 0°05' away from the 11th house cusp, and must definetely be taken in the 11th house for interpretation (where as in Dalianhe, he's certainly in 10)
Pluto must be taken here for sure in the 9th house, where as in China, he was 2° away from the 9th house cusp, so he could be taken in 8 or 9 (in Dalianhe)

If we shift you to Charlottesville, Virginia
Rising becomes 12°27' Aquarius, Mc is @ 0°57' Sagittarius
Here applies pretty much the same as in Blacksburg...
Only Saturn is a bit further away from the 11th house cusp, so here there is more doubt if whe should take him in 10 or 11 or both (i always prefer the last solution in cases like that)

[coeur]

You are an interesting case for relocational astrology, coeur

Like in Dalianhe (your birth place in China), you have an 19°01' Aqua Rising, and an Mc (10th house cusp) of 6°51' Sagittarius... Pisces/ Virgo are intercepted in the 1st/ 7th house

If we shift you to Blacksburg, Montgomery County, Virginia
Rising becomes 10°27' Aqua, Mc goes to the last degree of Scorpio (29°06') and Aries/ Libra become intercepted in 2nd/ 8th house...

Other changes...
Saturn is 0°05' away from the 11th house cusp, and must definetely be taken in the 11th house for interpretation (where as in Dalianhe, he's certainly in 10)
Pluto must be taken here for sure in the 9th house, where as in China, he was 2° away from the 9th house cusp, so he could be taken in 8 or 9 (in Dalianhe)

If we shift you to Charlottesville, Virginia
Rising becomes 12°27' Aquarius, Mc is @ 0°57' Sagittarius
Here applies pretty much the same as in Blacksburg...
Only Saturn is a bit further away from the 11th house cusp, so here there is more doubt if whe should take him in 10 or 11 or both (i always prefer the last solution in cases like that)

Thanks...but I don't know what any of this means :)