Need prayers for my heart to forgive

[Tytania Faerie]

Someone who used to be in my life has lied to somene else and others , I just found out about it and it is quite hurtful , because at least I have been honest about things that have gone on .

anyhow I am finding it harder to move on because I am having now a harder time forgiving because of all the lies and crap that have been told . It is hurtful and makes me so mad and angry .

It is actually making me hurt , my bones ache , migraines and muscles too ache .

anyhow I was wondering if anyone would send positive energy and thoughts , so maybe I can see the brighter side of things and just forgive , it is the only way I will be able to move on I think if I can get rid of all these hateful aweful , sad feelings I have toward them .

Thanks so much and many blessings ,
Ty :)

[alwaysfallingup]

Wishing you peace and a sense of well-being.:smile:

[Cloaked Raven]

:hugz:

[Lunacie]

All things in their own good time.

It's a process that has to be worked through over time.
First you have to accept that you have these feelings.
You have to accept that someone betrayed and hurt you.
You have to allow yourself to be angry with that person.
You have to recognize some of that anger is directed at yourself,
for letting someone hurt you, for trusting them, for even caring,
for not breaking it off sooner.

Then ... you can start letting go of the sadness and anger.
Then you can remember some of the happy times as well as the sad ones.
Wish it could happen overnight or as moment of epiphany, but it doesn't.

Sending healing and comforting energies - from someone who has been there and felt that way herself. May the healing begin. :hugz:

[Nesta]

Peaceful, calming and focused energy to you. And a big hug too :hugz:

[watersprite]

Betrayal can do that to a person.
The thing is, you CAN forgive. You just don't have to forget. The trust issues are gone. Putting the whole episode out of your life will make you healthier. Your "episode" is over now. How you behave in the face of what "gossip girl" has done will tell the real truth. It's a growing experience that you can get past. Many hugs.