question of a dream....

[shellanthia]

:RuNew: Merry Meet, my name is shellanthia, and I have a very importiant question involving a dream I had. I had three so called friends betray me a while back, and now everything is unravelling in my dream...here goes... *in my dream i was still friends with these three women, and they tried to be as nice as possible to me. then the using kept happening. i would die after they used me, in some ill mannered way, then i would be re incarnated, and it would all start up again.* ever since this dream i have been in fear of people using me because that is all that has been happening to me lately...can someone please help me? ~lost soul~

[Kadynas]

I'm not a dream analysis expert or anything but based on the way it keeps repeating itself, I'd say maybe your dreams trying to tell you they'll just keep hurting you over and over again until you have the courage to walk away from it... I wouldn't go for any binding/banishing spells just yet... Ignoring them may well prove to be effective enough. :)

[Ben Trismegistus]

I agree with Kadynas. It sounds as if you're in a vicious cycle -- that unless you move on from this situation with your ex-friends, you're doomed to relive it, in your dreams if not in real life.

I don't, however, agree with any of the answers to your poll. You certainly shouldn't continue to be friends with them, but you don't have to avoid them like the plague. And a banishment spell would be overkill. Just pick yourself up and move on.

[FeatherGoblinglimmer]

I agree with Ben here. Although you might consider doing a binding on your feelings for them, if you have trouble moving on, which it sounds like you need to do.

[Lamoondove]

Merry Meet ,,,,,

I agree with the first two , try to walk away from them first then do what you have to most times when ya dont let someone trip your triger ,, cant cant seem to push that button , one day they see that and give it up ???? Just a thought ,,,Blessed Be

[beachdrifta]

i would definately try to walk away from them. i'm not a dream expert, but the part of the dream where you die after they use you is probably parts of you dying....your willpower...your trust in others.....i know because i too have been used. its hard to walk away from people whom you've invested time in getting to know.....but once you do walk away from that situation and those people you'll feel so much better. i had the same thing happen to me and i'm a better person for it. and now those 2 friends who used me are no longer friends with each other....and they're nice as pie to me :)