Help for a distressed relationship

[Mab]

Ok, mostly I'm asking for help for my bf. He's been separated from his wife for 7 months, and he's stuck. He doesn't want to go back to her, but they have an 18mo daughter that he adores. For some reason, in his mind divorcing his wife is tantamount to abandoning his daughter. His logical mind knows that's not true, and he's done some of the necessary legal work to confirm that his "ex" can't take his daughter away from him forever. But his fear is so great the he's paralyzed. He's stuck living in an extended stay hotel b/c he's afraid to take one step further toward divorce. His ex knows that when he has his daughter he's usually with me (she knows all about me--well, mostly--she doesn't know I'm a witch), and she's usually not too bad about it. But he's frozen. Absolutely terrified to go forward. He doesnt' want to go back, doesn't want to stay where he is, but he just can't seem to move forward toward committing to us (we've been together for a little over 3 years--yes, I know--it was an accident, and so was his daughter, but we love her anyway), and he's just killing himself inside.

Please send whatever courage, healing, strength, or blessings--whatever might be of help to him so that he can heal himself & move forward in his life.

Thank you most graciously.

Aine

[Hoot]

Please send whatever courage, healing, strength, or blessings--whatever might be of help to him so that he can heal himself & move forward in his life.


:hugz: I will.

[dragonkin]

Energies on the way.

[Mab]

:huddle: Group Hug. Thanks guys!

[Pesha]

I will send love blessings and enegies to the both of you sweety. And a prayer to the Great Mother that the situation will be resolved as it is meant to be.

BB
DS.

[Raydreamer]

Sending courage his way and hugs to you both...and most of all to the little girl. :) :hugz:

[Mab]

Thank you all. Just keep it going......It's going to be really rough for him for a while yet. And for me. And thank goodness his daughter is still really too young to know any different.

[menolly]

I understand what he's going through, I'm in a similar situation myself...
Hugs, energy, love, light & blessings to all involved for a result that is in everyone's best interests and as pain-free as possible

[nomadicdragon]

((hugs)) & energy

[mucgwyrt]

*energy...energy...*

[Mab]

Ok, he's sought the help of an attorney. He's terribly depressed. But he's getting help. However, he's got to be "extra careful" in case his estranged wife decides to hire a PI to follow him!

I know I shouldn't be, but this is just making me insanely furious. And I feel so helpless.

[GryphonGirl]

Maybe I'm late seeing this, but I wish you folks love, energy, strength and endurance. Perhaps the Universe is showing the way.......

[Nissala]

Energy on the way, hon.... :hugz: