Okay here goes...

[RubyRose]

Um, I'm badly in need of advice here. Like several of you have most likely read recently my mother, is beyond barable. The latest installment is basically, she deceived both my dad and I and went to The Ascott Inn, where my dad did in fact have a work meeting held, and came home drunk. Yes you guessed it. She's up to her old tricks. The last remaining thread of trust, I had in her, is now totally depleted. We're back to sqaure one, and I'm back to the mind frame (okay, so its never left) of wishing she'd just die, or leave, or something. Okay, I also know I need to get out of here, but while all this crap is going on around me, its hard to do much of anything? Except leave as soon as I can in the morning, for TAFE and come home as late as is possible at night.
I'll um leave it here, for the moment...
RubyRose

Ways to contact me, private messages, email or thru this thread I suppose. I'm not overly comfortable with have people call me, as it could get tricky, parental wise.

[{Tigress}]

RubyRose, I've contacted one of our counselors, so look for a PM from them sometime today. If you do not hear from them by tomorrow, please PM me or Aine and we will contact someone else for you.

[RubyRose]

RubyRose, I've contacted one of our counselors, so look for a PM from them sometime today. If you do not hear from them by tomorrow, please PM me or Aine and we will contact someone else for you.

Thanks.

[LadyTrinity]

Can you explain the situation a bit more?

[RubyRose]

Can you explain the situation a bit more?

The situation goes a little like this.

Back in the end of May, beginning of June, my suspected that I was lying about my whereabouts, she was drunk at the time, and accused me of lying, and she also rang every known resource she knew, just to find out if I was telling the truth. See, rather than explain that I was using the week to finish of assignments that were due for TAFE, at TAFE, I just decided it would be easier to just let them know I was going to TAFE. Looking back I realise it was probably dumb, but at the time, I wasn't allowed to use our home computer during the day to go on the internet. So TAFE was the logical place to do so, with researching assignments and all.
The short of this is, it blue up in my face, she verbally attacked me when I got home, and proceeded to tell anybody she could, by phone that we (my sister and I) were ungrate so and so's and shouldn't be living at home anymore. It was time we moved out. So she told us to leave. So my sister, Taryn, packed up her bags then and there, and went to move in with her boyfriend and his family. She's been there eversince.
Now, I was another story. I had nowhere to go. My boyfriend having recently been kicked out of his parents place, and was currently living with a mate. So I couldn't move in with him, or his parents, because I didn't agree with the way they handled the whole situation with their son.

Things, have only progressively gotten worse. She constantly tells me, I deserve better than Rhyce, and insults my intelligence. I can't win with whatever I do around here, cause most of the time, its not done to her satisfaction, so I feel like giving up.

I just get the feeling, she's out to make everybody miserable. I know that she's trying hard to put herself in the place of 'good guy' because she's been the 'bad guy' for as long as I can remember. My sister and I, have come to rely on our dad. Maybe because he never got drunk and left us waiting to be picked up from school, when we were younger. <sigh>

I can't see her in a good light. I try. I've even tried to forgive her. I get to thinking, well I could forgive her for everything if she'd commit herself to giving up drinking, but she has to touch alcohol, even if it is just socially. And I don't like it.

RubyRose