Flar's in the Hospital

[Flar's Freyja]

He was admitted today. For those who aren't aware, he has had cystic fibrosis since birth. He typically goes in to the hospital about 4 times a year for a good antibiotic flush and is usually a bit sicker than usual by the time he gets there.

The past few weeks have not been good. If his heart rate goes up at all, he can't breathe and has had to ask for help. More than being scary - he just absolutely hates any loss of independence. Part of the reason he's lived so long is because he has not succumbed. He's a fighter and has always said he will not give in to this awful thing.

I've been very worried and scared. My hope that they'll fix him may be false, since he's lived longer than most with this disease already. My own health hasn't been good for the past year and I've felt terribly guilty that I can't give him the care he needs. This surgery should help, but right now I'm still having to take it slow.

Any energy, candles, prayers would be so appreciated.

[Nekhet]

Healing energy sent....keep us posted.....

Your humble servant,
Nekhet

[~*Ginger*~]

:hugz:

[Teresa]

You have all 3 from me energies to You both and candles as well and definitely prayers!! :hugz:

[Aleannah]

Reiki energy sent and a candle lit... :hugz:

[morrigen]

Energy sent.

My thoughts and hopes are with you.

[Earthy]

:hugz: Freya.
Healing energies sent.

[~Elise~]

Any energy, candles, prayers would be so appreciated.

Done--Reiki sent from me and a candle. I'm sure Rick will be sending healing thoughts, as well.

Elise

[Storm Moon]

Thoughts, and energy sent in your direction. :huddle:

[13thChylde]

((((((Flar + Freya)))))

Candles will be lit when I get home, and prayers and energy sent. :hugz:

[Fairyelf]

I will truly light a candle and send healing energies to him
please keep us updated. **hugs**

[Old Witch]

Candle will be lit shortly and energy is sent......:hugz:

[Cinnamon Girl]

Energy and prayers for you both. :hugz:

[DraconisArcanus]

Healing and strength to you both! I will ask the Goddess and my dragon friends to help as well.

Peace!

[Faeawyn]

:hugz: prayers and energy sent to you both :hugz:

[Tsuchimaru]

:hugz:

[Boogins]

Hugz, energy, and candles, Freyja. Tell Flar we're behind him. :hugz: And you.

[DragonsChest]

Love, energy, and hope for you both, my friends. {{{F'lar and Freyja}}}

[Flar's Freyja]

Thank you all so much! I'll let him know how much you all care for him when I talk to him later today.

You guys are incredible.

[Shanti]

My heart felt energies for both of you. ~Hugs~

[magick_faerie]

energy sent for him....my thoughts are with him and energy sent for your health too
x

[nomadicdragon]

((hugs)) & energy

[Writer_Waif]

Energy heading your way :hugz: :boquet:

[Little Willow]

:hugz: (((Freyja))) and (((F'lar))). My thoughts are with you both luvvie. I've a candle lit and sent healing energy. Hope everything goes well with the operation. Let us know when he's having it, I'll send an extra burst of energy at that time.

[LadyAutumnCat]

Sending you plenty of energy! :hugz:

[Avalon]

Sending energy, prayers and hugs to you both. :hugz:

[Nighthawk]

Oh man.. I will light a candle for you both... Man, come on, Joe.....I am pulling for you....

[Lunacie]

Reiki healing energy on the way to help Flar, and for your own recovery.

[MockingbirdOxygen]

_witchball
*sending healing and comforting energies to you both

[Shatril]

(((((Energy for the best possible outcome))))) I'm lighting a candle now :hugz:

[soilsigh aingeal]

healing and more stregth for the fighter :hugz:

[moonchild]

:hugz:

[WynterWynd]

Energy and Love being sent to both of you:hugz:

Can't wait for my buuuuudy to get back:p

[Gala]

Best thoughts and energy to Flar,

[GryphonGirl]

Many many ~Hugs~ for both of you....and lots of strengthening, and healing energy for Flar7. Then some calming and steadying energy for you too Freyja....hang in there, we're here for you.......:hugz:

[Twig]

The good thoughts have never stopped. All that I can.

See ya soon.

Peace,
Twig

[Hellenic_Witch]

:huddle: My thoughts are with you both. :sniffsnif

[Nighthawk]

Trying ot give you karma...Freyja....thing will not work..I am pulling for you too.... let's hear some good news

[OriginalWacky]

Your whole family continues to be on my healing list.

[Kaylara]

As always, anything you need is yours.

Please send him my love, and you have it as well.

*much huggles and love*

[MammaStar]

You've got it honey, as always.

LOVE YOU GUYS!! :heartthro :hugz:

[Bec_W]

I'm doing a healing meditation later on tonight, I'll include him in that. I hope the surgery goes well.

[ObsidianSunrise]

:hugz: Energies on the way for both of you!

[butterflysuspect]

much love

[Flar's Freyja]

Wow, thanks again for all the sweet replies. I talked to him a few times today, he sounds good. Dorky sense of humor as usual. I asked if they were fixing him up and he said he got a new leg...... :nicetie:

That could change, the antibiotics have made him really sick before but not for the past few visits. At least I know that Semele's up there tonight and he won't be too lonely.

You guys are great and so appreciated.

[Faery-Wings]

As always -- to both of you--

[Semele]

At least I know that Semele's up there tonight and he won't be too lonely.

Lonely? He has no time to be lonely. He was far too busy ordering me around. "I need oxygen, can I have some water, my eyeall fell out, my IV is beeping, sing me a song!" Ok so he never wanted a song, but he was up until 0500 yakking.

He seemed to be feeling pretty good. We laughed a lot and we talked about Halloween which is over a week away and he said something about maybe still being there, so maybe he will stay long enough to get better this time! Last few times he was checking out before his name on the board was dry. (Maybe since Freyja is "laid up" healing, he decided to do the same and then they can blow up balloons together when they are all better!

His only concern is Freyja and how she is doing! He is such a sappy sucker.

Freyja, take care of yourself and focus on getting better and he will do the same. We will take care of him and visit him frequently and I am sure my husband will stuff his gullett with vast amounts of raw fish.

[Morr]

lots of energies coming flar's way & i will definitly lit a candle for him

:hugz:

[~*Ginger*~]

Thanks for the update Semele!
Glad he's feeling better, and that your there to fluff his pillows.
Tell him we all said 'Hello, and get well soon.'
:hugz:

[Gala]

Glad that Semele is there for Flar..
So now that Flar is taking care of himself... Freyja can do the same...Maybe the two of you can get all better and be well at the same time now???

Take care both of you.

[SnowyMoon]

Energy is sent. Strength and health for you both. ;).

:hugz:

[Mnemosyne]

Lots of good energy being sent!!!!

:sunny:

[~Elise~]

Rick and I just came from the hospital visiting Flar. He's doing pretty well and seems to be in good spirits. Was cracking a few jokes--corny as usual. But I wouldn't want him any other way.

Just thought I'd update you guys,

Elise

[Faerin]

healing energies sent for both Flar and for Freyja too :sunny: I'm glad he's doing better it seems, it's so nice he has all of you to visit him.

[Goddess Rhiannon]

My hopes and prayers go out to both you and Flair.....I am sending much healing energy for both of you.

Brightest Blessings,
Goddess Rhiannon

[Shatril]

Thx Semele for the update. ((((Energy & Love)))) Sent

[DragonsChest]

Thanks to both Sem and pearls59 for the updates! And for taking such good care of him, and visiting.

:hugz: for Flar, Freyja and all of you!

[phoenix1010]

Sending healing energies to you both....

[WynnJera]

Energy, love and healing to you both ... :hugz:

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[Semele]

Well, last night after his sushi yeilding buddies left, flar took a long nap, giving me time to catch up on all the work for my four other patients on the entire floor. Yeah..rough week end so far. (someone must have known I needed Flartime!) Then he was out at the desk where we discussed such fun topics as electromagnetic energy, brains, memory and who you are or where your memories go when you die, to me almost killing him (it always comes up) to what Winnie the pooh's last name was. It was great. We laughed a lot and he was out of breathe a lot.

I walked in on him blowing up a baloon...imagine my suprise! I was like.."Is Freyja coming?" He laughed and explained to his dumb nurse how that was good exercise for folks with CF. I will share that with others..in fact I already did! That's why we keep him around on the kids floor..he is teaching them how to do things and be old and cranky like him. He commented on how the RT, Chris, used to play chess with him..thirty years ago! Damn!

Overall, I think he is doing well. He is very tired and having some headaches. His oxygen levels are good and he is up moving so I think he has it under his control. Thanks to all the boosts and prayers from here no doubt. I am headed back tonight with some decent snacks for him because we have nothing good to offer him and he is so pathetic with those big eyes asking for snacks. Lots of Pepsi because he drives me nuts going downstairs for pepsi all the time. Also some strawberry banana yogurt and sliced kraft cheese. Hey...I don't pretend to understand him, I just think he is fun to hang around with!

[Semele]

Oh yeah and me and Flar want to know how many of you guys know the answer to the pooh thing without looking it up.

share away!

[~*Ginger*~]

Isn't Pooh's last name 'Bear'?

[Teresa]

Robinson? I am glad to hear that hes doing ok . Keeping him and Freyja both in my prayers and sending energies to them both!

[Wyrdsister]

I will be sending healing energy to both of you very soon. The candles will be lit as soon as I finish this post.

(((HUGS))) and )))Prayers(((

Wyrdsister

P.S. And isn't his last name "Pooh?"

[Calyx]

Freyja, I just saw this.
You know, my sweet friend, that you and Flar are often in my thoughts. I am always impressed by your perseverence (or is that persistence from our CEA?). Hang in there, both of you. Healing energy sent for both you and Flar.
We are here for you. :hugz:

[WynterWynd]

Thanks for the updates Semele:)

More energy being sent out his way:hugz:

What is Winnies last name.....it couldn't be Pooh:hrmm: could it?

[Epona44]

((( Be well, Flar)))

[Flar's Freyja]

I walked in on him blowing up a baloon...imagine my suprise! I was like.."Is Freyja coming?" He laughed and explained to his dumb nurse how that was good exercise for folks with CF. I will share that with others..in fact I already did! That's why we keep him around on the kids floor..he is teaching them how to do things and be old and cranky like him. He commented on how the RT, Chris, used to play chess with him..thirty years ago! Damn!

Overall, I think he is doing well. He is very tired and having some headaches. His oxygen levels are good and he is up moving so I think he has it under his control. Thanks to all the boosts and prayers from here no doubt. I am headed back tonight with some decent snacks for him because we have nothing good to offer him and he is so pathetic with those big eyes asking for snacks. Lots of Pepsi because he drives me nuts going downstairs for pepsi all the time. Also some strawberry banana yogurt and sliced kraft cheese. Hey...I don't pretend to understand him, I just think he is fun to hang around with!

{{{Semele}}} And I appreciate your donation of groceries! His cheese and Mountain Dew addiction is a major drain on the checkbook when I am working! I did buy him some movies today, Walgreen's had one of his favorites for $3.99. That's another addiction of his - I always say he can't leave me any money but I can open a goddamn video store, lol.

Keep it coming {{{MW friends}}} He is still using oxygen and I hate that. It's just so dang obvious :( I can't sleep up there since my incision is still pretty painful. We've been together 24/7 and I think we need a little break, although he doesn't agree. But days are coming where that won't be possible, so I'm making sure I have enough energy for when those days do come.

[Shatril]

I always called him Pooh Bear.

((((Love & Energy)))) Nice strong winds of oxegen for Flar.

[Lunacie]

Energy to heal the incision, energy to breath easy, huggs for you and Pooh Bear too. :)

[Nighthawk]

Please...you guys take care..... My thoughts are with you...

[Semele]

Pooh Bear's last name is....uh I think I will wait and let him tell you! Heh!

Also see if you an figure out which personality disorder we labeled each character with!


I think Mol is going to take Trey for a visit later today. They both keep asking about each other. ;) Trey thinks Flar is his age!

[DragonsChest]

Trey thinks Flar is his age!


Well, Flar is, mentally!!!! He's just stuck in a bigger body. :fishtank:

[WynterWynd]

Pooh Bear's last name is....uh I think I will wait and let him tell you! Heh!

Also see if you an figure out which personality disorder we labeled each character with!


I think Mol is going to take Trey for a visit later today. They both keep asking about each other. ;) Trey thinks Flar is his age!
Rabbit definitely has OCD:p


Trey and Flar together:eek: The hospital may never recover from the silliness:lol:

[Shatril]

Tigger has ADHD
Eyore is Slow

[Semele]

Tigger has ADHD
Eyore is Slow
He is not slow, he is depressed! He is all "poor me, thanks for noticing". Eyore is a drag man.

[Flar's Freyja]

He is not slow, he is depressed! He is all "poor me, thanks for noticing". Eyore is a drag man.

Ah, the insights that children's stories provide! I heard that old song, "House on Pooh Corner" in the car the other day, good lessons for us all.

I'm so glad you've been there since I can't be there as much this time. I never worry when you and Miss Darlene are there.

That is so cute that Trey thinks Flar's his age! But Trey's also an old wise man in a kid's body.......

[Gebo]

But Trey's also an old wise man in a kid's body.......
yes indeed he is.
love and energy sent to both flar and freyja.
pooh-emotional eater (eats when he is happy, sad, mad, etc...)
rabbit-ocd
Eeyore is not a drag! he is sad. His favorite song:"hum day to you so nice of you to notice me, looks like rain, wait and see,..." he suffers from depression
piglet-dwarf syndrome
tigger-adhd or aspberger
beaver-know it all-ness and buck teeth
christopher robin-well lets start with all the voices and personalities listed above. i think he has some placement issues and created a charater for each of his moods.

get better Flar and Freyja!!!

[WynterWynd]

Then what Owl got:huh:

[Teresa]

Then what Owl got:huh:
Alzheimers! I am glad he is doing alright and I also think Trey is an old soul in a young body.Still sending healing energies to You both !!!

[Gebo]

Then what Owl got:huh:
Owl is christopher robins conscience. He is always teaching the other personalities the 'right thing' to do. Owl has all the answers.

[Semele]

Owl is christopher robins conscience. He is always teaching the other personalities the 'right thing' to do. Owl has all the answers.
Ah, I get ya. All the characters are him and he plays with them all trying to balance them all out. I wonder what type of characters all my emotional issues would manifest as. We should start another thread!;)

BTW, know it all ness and buck teeth are not personality disorders. That whistling gopher has manic depression, we just never see the depressed side. He is too damn happy and busy!

Oh and what of Kanga and Roo...split personality mayhaps?

Mol and Trey are at the hosital now. I am sure they have sufficiently torn the place apart!

[GryphonGirl]

More ~hugs~ and Energy for Flar and Freyja.....Love you both...

[WynterWynd]

I think Roo is the voice inside Kangas head:2G:

[Semele]

I think Roo is the voice inside Kangas head:2G:
And her pouch!

[WynterWynd]

:lol: I sucks when your pouch talks to you:hehehehe:

You don't have to go clean up the mess that Flar, Trey and Mol are making tonight....do you:eek:

[Semele]

:lol: I sucks when your pouch talks to you:hehehehe:

You don't have to go clean up the mess that Flar, Trey and Mol are making tonight....do you:eek:
Heck no! I am off until friday!

[Flar's Freyja]

I called when Trey was there and Flar was having a great time!

_wth_ What the hell is this?

[Shatril]

So Christopher Robin has Dissociative Identity Disorder/Multiple Personlity Disorder. Hum, never thought of that, but it fits.

[WynterWynd]

Heck no! I am off until friday!
*whew* Thats good:p

I bet Trey eneded up being the referee between mol and Flar:hutone:

Hope thye all had a great time together:)

[Semele]

I called when Trey was there and Flar was having a great time!
Mol said he took a couple of pictures of Trey and Flar flashing gang signs at him. I will make him post it!





_wth_ What the hell is this?
I think this guy represents the human struggle to grasp that which is just out of our reach and then we get it and look down suddenly realising that we simply cannot grasp the concept and live it at the same time. We need a friend. Then we could stand on their back and snatch it down to earth..whatever "it" is. Or maybe it is just a smiley trying to reach a strawberry, like grasping at sraw.....s.....bery or something.

[Flar's Freyja]

Mol said he took a couple of pictures of Trey and Flar flashing gang signs at him. I will make him post it!



I think this guy represents the human struggle to grasp that which is just out of our reach and then we get it and look down suddenly realising that we simply cannot grasp the concept and live it at the same time. We need a friend. Then we could stand on their back and snatch it down to earth..whatever "it" is. Or maybe it is just a smiley trying to reach a strawberry, like grasping at sraw.....s.....bery or something.


Yep, I was looking for the pics :smileroll I'm on my way up, will probably spend the night since he's having anxiety attacks :( I'm havin' 'em too, but I have a lot to get done at home and we have been with each other 24/7 for a while now! I think he worries that I'm not coming back when I don't stay, but leaving him would never cross my mind. I am hooked on my cute little man. I just can't sleep in the bed up there and I do want to make a few batches of soap while he's gone. One of the fragrances I used nearly killed both of us a few weeks ago! That doesn't usually happen but I'm not taking any chances.

[WynterWynd]

Can't wait to see the pics:)

More energy coming out to both of you Freyja:hugz:


Maybe that smilie is trying to tell some people 'you have to let go....its not worth it'....he did after all, loose his arm over a berry:eek::lol:

[Autumn]

Healing and strengthening energy being sent...

[Boogins]

Big :hugz: to both of you. Again, and every day.

[Jenne]

OMG Freyja--I always miss these threads until it's almost all over and done and gone! But here I have a chance to send healing energies to both of you...and of course you have my love and best wishes!



:hugz:



ETA: Oh, and isn't Pooh "Mr. Sorenson"--the name that's on his house? :idea:

[Semele]

Can't wait to see the pics:)

More energy coming out to both of you Freyja:hugz:


Maybe that smilie is trying to tell some people 'you have to let go....its not worth it'....he did after all, loose his arm over a berry:eek::lol:
What a great take on it!


Jenne you are very close!

Hugs and energy to the Joes!:hugz:

[DragonsChest]

I believe it's Sanderson above the door on Pooh' house.

[MystAngel]

I didn't see this thread until now either, but thoughts and prayers are sent on the wind to you both.
Be well and strong and may the Goddess watch over you.

[~ Monk ~]

Keeping you both in my thoughts. :hugz:

[IndigoMoon]

healing energy sent!

[Rick]

I believe it's Sanderson above the door on Pooh' house.
Pooh lives in the house that says "Sanders" over the door... um, why are we talkin' about that? (What, you want me to be different than everybody else & read more than the last page of a thread?!?)

:awilly: BTW, I don't care what this lil guy 'means', I love him just the same :hehehehe:

[Jenne]

I believe it's Sanderson above the door on Pooh' house.
D'oh! I was close! LOL:T

[WynterWynd]

Pooh lives in the house that says "Sanders" over the door... um, why are we talkin' about that? (What, you want me to be different than everybody else & read more than the last page of a thread?!?)

:awilly: BTW, I don't care what this lil guy 'means', I love him just the same :hehehehe:

Yes Rick....we are trying to make you read more:lol:

:D

[DragonsChest]

D'oh! I was close! LOL:T

Neither of us was actually right, though! :ggrief: I think Rick was:


Pooh lives in the house that says "Sanders" over the door...

[Semele]

The winnah was Rick! Come on down and claim your prize. An all expense paid trip to SJMC to spend the evening with a handsome, clever dream date! A delightful culinary treat from the cafeteria which will likely have jello. A soft ambiance of beeping iv's and call lights and the pleasant aroma of aresolysed antibiotics that make your eyes tear up. Ah, the romantic fog! Enjoy!

[DragonsChest]

Semele, you frighten me. :lookaroun

[AuroraSilvermist]

:hugz: and energy and lots of positive thoughts for Flar and Freyja. :hugz:


Pooh Bear's last name is....uh I think I will wait and let him tell you! Heh!

Also see if you an figure out which personality disorder we labeled each character with!


I think Mol is going to take Trey for a visit later today. They both keep asking about each other. ;) Trey thinks Flar is his age!

Okay, I'm not going to look because I'm sure somebody posted the answer. Is Pooh's last name Sanders? Isn't that what's over the door of his house? Anyhow.

Personality disorders (well, more like psychological problems, because personality disorders are specific things, but anyhow :P ) ...

Rabbit - OCD (Okay, that IS a personality disorder. ;) )
Tigger - ADHD
Eeyore - Chronic depression
Kanga and Roo - Far too normal :p
Pigglet - Hmmm. Agoraphobia, maybe? :lol:

[AuroraSilvermist]

No, wait...I'm remembering a scene from Charlie Brown where Lucy is counseling Charlie Brown and she says, "Pantophobia. Do YOU have pantophobia, Charlie Brown?" And Charlie Brown says, "What's that?", and Lucy says, "The fear of everything!" and Charlie Brown screams, "THAT'S IT!"

That must be Pigglet, too. :lol:

EDIT: Interesting! I just looked it up, and pantophobia is the fear of everything, while pantaphobia is a "dangerous absence of fear."

Don't mind me. I'm just amusing myself and giving Flar and Freyja and Semele more stuff to talk about. :D

[mol]

The site prince visiting the site jester. :p

[Shatril]

Ahhh nothing like a nice picture of the kids. Glad to see you looking good. _wedgie_

[WynterWynd]

The winnah was Rick! Come on down and claim your prize. An all expense paid trip to SJMC to spend the evening with a handsome, clever dream date! A delightful culinary treat from the cafeteria which will likely have jello. A soft ambiance of beeping iv's and call lights and the pleasant aroma of aresolysed antibiotics that make your eyes tear up. Ah, the romantic fog! Enjoy!
I want pictures of them running down the halls in butt-flap gowns:rollingla


.........Love the pic of 'the kids':D

[flar7]

ick, my hair was full of "Fairy Piss"

but Trey looks grrrrreat!

we were doing gangsigns. We are members of the "Pooh-behz"

[Jenne]

ick, my hair was full of "Fairy Piss"


:rotfl:

Good to see you back, O Bardish One...you had us goin' there for a minute. Well, worried sick maybe...doesn't help Frey is in such a turn herself.

More healing energies and loving :hugz: your way, Guys! :D

[Aleannah]

welcome home! :hugz:

[Writer_Waif]

Welcome home!!!

[WynterWynd]

http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/Gif/CHHobanim.gifWooHoo...he's home!!!!!

[flar7]

papa's got a brand new bag! :broomride

[DragonsChest]

papa's got a brand new bag! :broomride

Glad to hear you are home! This does beg the question, though, a brand new bag o'what? :hehehehe:

[flar7]

Cipro and Merrem, baby! :lol: _wiz_ _inabox_

[DragonsChest]

Ah, the Good Stuff. :uhhuhuh:

[Sowelu]

papa's got a brand new bag! :broomride
Very good to see you back Flar!!!!!:smile:

[Storm Moon]

Welcome back, flar. Glad to see that you're okay :)

[WandererInGray]

I'm totally late on this. *hugs* Sorry I was out of town.
Glad to hear you're back home and doing a little better. :)

[WynterWynd]

papa's got a brand new bag! :broomride

I um........I ......:gagged:

How dare you leave a perfectly good tacky line just hangin in the air for me like that:imout:

:hugz:

[MsFireHaven]

Much love healing and energy sent your way...Candles are lit :hugz:

[atropa]

:hugz:

[Nadira_Akila]

(((hugs)))..I'm pleased to hear you're doing well...welcome back!


Peace&Light
Nadira

[flar7]

thanks to you all for the good wishes. :adidas:

[Flar's Freyja]

Well......we saw the doctor on Thursday and he said, "Let's put it this way. If you applied for a lung transplant, you'd be accepted."

Which translates to - he's not doing so good. With CF, they don't accept people for transplants until they don't have much time left. 39 years of his poor lungs working against CF is taking its toll.

He doesn't want a transplant for many reasons, and it's not up to me to give ultimatums. It's his life and his decision. I did, however, ask him if he planned to tell St. Peter that he's a little early because he doesn't like to drive to Oklahoma City.....

I do wish he'd at least get on the waiting list, because I know my baby. He loves life and if it comes down to having a transplant or dying, he will probably change his mind.

His doctor's been wrong before, and I'm hoping that he is again. Flar's been very sick and that last fiasco of a hospital stay did him more harm than good, I think. He has the strongest spirit I've ever known and I know he'll fight with all he's got. But the sad reality is that our bodies give out whether we want them to or not, and sometimes there's no fighting it because we can only take so much.

Sorry - I just had to get that out. I can't imagine my life without him and although I entered into this relationship with no illusions, I will never be ready to let him go. I know that you all are always thinking of him and it is very much appreciated. Blessed Be.

[Shatril]

((((((Changing Mind Energy)))))) to Flar

((((((Love and :hugz: )))))) to you both.

[Flar's Freyja]

((((((Changing Mind Energy)))))) to Flar

((((((Love and :hugz: )))))) to you both.

Shatril, I don't know you very well, but I've noticed that you are always there to offer kind words. You are a wonderful, caring person and I just wanted to let you know that you are appreciated.

[Shatril]

Thank you it is nice to know that one is appreciated. I haven't been around as long as most of the regulars have. I have watched as Flar went into and came out of the hospital, and wanted to send energy for him. You have answers for my questions where we have crossed paths. I have seen your handfasting pictures, and feel like I probably know you better than you know me. I just love the folks here, and like to help when I can.

BB

[Old Witch]

I really don't want to lose my friend, if there's a vote, I'd vote transplant!! But like Freyja says, it's up to him....I love you both!! Candle lit....Energy sent!! :hugz:

[Lunacie]

Loving hugs and energies sent for Flar and Freya, a beautiful couple.

[Wolf Dancer]

He was admitted today. For those who aren't aware, he has had cystic fibrosis since birth. He typically goes in to the hospital about 4 times a year for a good antibiotic flush and is usually a bit sicker than usual by the time he gets there.

The past few weeks have not been good. If his heart rate goes up at all, he can't breathe and has had to ask for help. More than being scary - he just absolutely hates any loss of independence. Part of the reason he's lived so long is because he has not succumbed. He's a fighter and has always said he will not give in to this awful thing.

I've been very worried and scared. My hope that they'll fix him may be false, since he's lived longer than most with this disease already. My own health hasn't been good for the past year and I've felt terribly guilty that I can't give him the care he needs. This surgery should help, but right now I'm still having to take it slow.

Any energy, candles, prayers would be so appreciated.

_catroll_ *Sending energy to you and your husband*, will light candles for both of you. Stay positive, you and your husband are both Warriors of Life!! His work here on this plain is very important or he would not of survived his illness as long as he has. _firedevil tell your husband to keep fighting and we will all send energy from our little part of the world.

Walk in Peace :D

[Shanti]

Energy for you both.

[WynnJera]

:huddle: I am sorry that you have to go through hun love and energy to you both .... just a thought though ... hubby was born with a Heart defect and it was not his fault does that mean he deservers to be on a heart transplant list more or less than someone who clogged their heart with big mac's everyday for 50 years ... Flar has had cystic fibrosis since birth so does he deserver a lung transplant more or less than someone who smoke 2 packs a day and was careless with their lungs .... just my personal opinion since it was due to no fault of his own ...I feel the Dr should at least try to do something .... Dr should try and do more for those with Congenital defects and for those that are in the condition they are in due to abuse make them wait a bit longer ..... Candle lit for you both .... :huddle:

[DragonsChest]

Hugs and energies to you Flar and Freyja, and I hope Flar makes his mind up quickly. :smoochypo

(subliminal urgings: get on the transplant list, get on the transplant list, get on the trans......)

[Flar's Freyja]

:huddle: I am sorry that you have to go through hun love and energy to you both .... just a thought though ... hubby was born with a Heart defect and it was not his fault does that mean he deservers to be on a heart transplant list more or less than someone who clogged their heart with big mac's everyday for 50 years ... Flar has had cystic fibrosis since birth so does he deserver a lung transplant more or less than someone who smoke 2 packs a day and was careless with their lungs .... just my personal opinion since it was due to no fault of his own ...I feel the Dr should at least try to do something .... Dr should try and do more for those with Congenital defects and for those that are in the condition they are in due to abuse make them wait a bit longer ..... Candle lit for you both .... :huddle:

{{{{WJ}}}} Thanks so much, I know you and yours have issues of your own. I think the issue is not so much as whether someone deserves one as it is that lungs and surgeons are so scarce. I do question why they feel that someone has to be at death's door in order to get the transplant - unless it is that trying to survive on one's own organs may be less strain on the body since there are so many risks associated with transplants.

He could explain it to you better - the drugs involved in maintaining the transplant have many side effects, among them making diabetes worse because they mess with blood sugar. And Flar HATES low blood sugar episodes. He's already having to stick himself twice a day, takes numerous drugs and breathing treatments - I don't blame him for not wanting to add to that.

He is strong, so strong. I'm hoping that he has many years left before he is actually at that point. But I do wish he'd at least get on the waiting list just in case!

[Isis Diana]

Freya,

I hope that he is doing better soon. I will light candles for you both nightly. Healing energies have been sent your way as well. I do know that without you he would be lost - at least that's the feeling I get. Hang on to each other and he will pull through. I know that with all of the energy sent to him from this group, he will be feeling better soon. Please make sure and keep us updated as to his condition.

May the God and Goddess watch over you both,
-Isis

_wiz_