I need a spell!!

[Amora]

I met my soulmate two years ago but he lives over 3000 miles away. I have since lost touch with him and have been unsuccessful finding him. Yet I can't shake the feeling that I need to get in touch with him. Does anyone have a spell that would work in getting him the vibes that I'm looking for him??? Thanks for any help you can give me!!!

[eaglewolf]

In my hopefully helpful opinion...

Unless you belong to a tight knit circle from which spells have been passed on to you, a circle with which you have deep mental and spiritual connection, spells from others will do you little good.

What works for me will not work for you, unless you are willing to conform yourself to my way of thinking, my way of spirituality, attune yourself with my energies...

...the best spells are your spells... do not be afraid to craft your own. If you have ever worked a spell given to you by someone else (with success), any spell YOU create will work for YOU.

It is YOUR WILL, not THE WORDS...

[to all]

Not trying to cut anyone down, just bringing up a point and hope people are listening. If you are not ready to craft ALL of your own spells (not talking about rituals), perhaps you are not ready to cast ANY spells.

Take a close look at the advice in this [magick] forum, the answers to your plight are in here, given by wonderful people who are just trying to help...

Bright Blessings

~ew, who thinks spells are not baseball cards~

*Disclaimer - This is my opinion and should be taken as such ;)

[Amora]

Believe it or not, and I can't believe it myself...I've spent so long looking for the perfect "ancient" spell to perform it never occured to me that I have it somewhere inside of me. I've spent the last hour contemplating how I didn't see this obvious answer, but thanks so much Eaglewolf!!

Blessed Be

[Shatav]

Originally posted by Amora
Believe it or not, and I can't believe it myself...I've spent so long looking for the perfect "ancient" spell to perform it never occured to me that I have it somewhere inside of me. I've spent the last hour contemplating how I didn't see this obvious answer, but thanks so much Eaglewolf!!

Blessed Be

Good for you! The best spells are indeed those you create yourself and know are right for you, for everyone is different and will have a different way of doing everything. Hope it worked for you!

[Tigerwallah]

Maybe you can get something from this story -
several years ago I had lost touch with the one I considered to be my soul mate. 9 mos had gone by without a word spoken between us.

I went to the temple of my Goddess, Isis, at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in NY. I prayed to my goddess, and then meditated myself into a state of higher consciousness. During this time, I asked Isis to see this man, and I envisioned our reunion and things we would say to eachother.

That night I got a call from him and he came to see me. We had the same conversation that I had imagined at the temple.

Just ask. It worked for me.

[Amora]

I appreciate hearing your story. I've always had a very strong feeing that I would meet up with him again, it's great to hear from someone who has had success. I'm going to try my hand with a prayer and a spell tonight. I'm hoping with the full moon and all I'll have a little added luck on my side. Oh, and it is a spell I wrote myself!!!

Thanks so much to everyone who responded to me for all the encouragement!!!

Blessed Be...

[Sephiroth]

there are spells out there for the jioning of souls of soulmate and lovers, ect... but i dont think u should use it with out the counter spell that way if u dont like him u can break the spell

[Amora]

Originally posted by Sephiroth
there are spells out there for the jioning of souls of soulmate and lovers, ect... but i dont think u should use it with out the counter spell that way if u dont like him u can break the spell

Do you know how I would go about obtaining one of these spells and the counter spell... After I do my own tonight it wouldn't hurt to do one of those "ancient" spells I was originally looking for...

[Dextra]

This is just me throwing in my ever-valued (heh) opinion again. :D
What I always found that worked for me in such a case is doing something similar to what Tigerwallah said. I put myself into a deep meditative state and concentrate on the person. I visualize myself reaching out and touching that person, giving them a hug or a tap on the shoulder (depending on who it is, of course :) ). Then I just send out the vibe that I miss them and wish to see them again. I don't necessarily hear from them in the next five minutes, but usually within a week I'll either get a call, they'll come to my house, or I'll just run into them somewhere.
This worked for me just last month, and I didn't even realize I had done it until later! I was concentrating on writing a letter to a friend of mine whom I'd had a falling out with. I hadn't seen or heard from him in over a year. He sent me an e-mail a few hours after I wrote the letter. I hadn't even mailed it yet!
But if you feel the need to do a spell, then composing it yourself is the best way to go. Everytime you write a spell yourself, you put a little of yourself into it, therefore making it all the more effective! :D

[Amora]

I just wanted to follow this up and thank everyone for their advice. I wrote my own spell and performed it the other night. During this spell I simply asked to be able to locate him and to let him know I was looking for him. Afterward I immediately turned to my computer where previously I had found some email address of horse trainers in the UK (He worked with horses.). I only found one that came close to the trainer I was looking for and although I knew in my heart this wasn't the correct person I felt compelled after doing the spell to email this person anyway. It turned out this was not the correct person BUT...they knew how to reach the trainer I was looking for and forwarded my email on to him! He emailed me back the other day with news that the man I believe to be my soulmate is now in New Zealand (across the world from me, literally) but he will let him know I'm thinking of him!!!

Although I didn't hear exactly what I would've liked to I got what I asked for. I thank everyone who gave me the confidence to write my own spell, I don't think anything else would've worked as well!!!