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Lady Jade
December 9th, 2004, 05:29 PM
We are in the worst of financial positions right now. I am laid off from my job until mid January; recently my unemployment benefits were suspended based on the fact I turned down a job as I was waiting to return to my current position. We are waiting to hear whether or not my benefits will continue or be disallowed.

My husband is working, but child support takes more than half of his check each week and after taxes, child support he brings home about 150$ per week. Now, today, we find out that his newly enacted health insurance, which will cut his take home pay down to about 120$ per week, was entered into the system incorrectly to include me as covered as well. This makes his check for this already short week (he was sick 2 days last week) only 43$. We have absolutely no groceries, no gas, the battery on the car is dead, no Christmas, nothing of value to sell, no options. I am going to the food bank tomorrow, but that will only get us enough for about 3 days of food. Bills are overdue.

I am cooking the last food in the house tonight for dinner. Things just keep getting worse instead of better. I don't know what to do. I am kicking myself for not taking that job offered to me, but I did so without thinking that it was a sign from the Gods...an answer to my plea for help with the money situation.

Please have a good thought that the Unemployment benefits will be allowed to continue and somehow we will find a way out of this horrid mess I seem to have gotten our lives into.

~*Ginger*~
December 9th, 2004, 05:38 PM
:hugz: Lady Jade!
Goddess bless you all!

Boogins
December 9th, 2004, 05:56 PM
I'll pray for a lot more to come to you than that, Angela. :hugz:

OriginalWacky
December 9th, 2004, 11:39 PM
I'm so sorry you are going through this. We've been about there a lot recently, though things are at least on a semi even keel right now. We can even almost pay our electric bill. Lucky for us, I do qualify for food stamps, and that keeps us in a bit of food. It's only $140 a month, and that doesn't go far for 4 people, but it's a whole lot better than nothing.

I'll be happy to add you to our prosperity ritual here, and I hope things turn out better for you. I hope you know that things WILL get better.

audi
December 10th, 2004, 12:03 AM
take care! sounds like lots of people are having money hardships this year. good luck to all of ya. *hugs* :hugz:

Teresa
December 10th, 2004, 12:32 AM
Dressing a candle for You ! :hugz:

Pagan Taoist
December 10th, 2004, 12:35 AM
In any extreme its opposite is born. Energy and good will sent your direction ... wishing the best for your financial needs.

ObsidianSunrise
December 10th, 2004, 04:43 AM
Positive prosperity energy coming your way! Hubby and I are in the same shape right now. Child support and taxes leave not enough to even pay rent. I went to one of the local charities last week to see if they would help us and instead got invited to go to their church and they would pray for me. I can pray at home just fine LOL. I know it is hard but just try to find some humor in everyday and something to be thankful for each day. And remember we all care and are here to listen. :hugz:

morrigen
December 10th, 2004, 06:24 AM
I hope things get better...

I've been there myself, quite recently, and it bites arse. :hugz: wish there was more I could say...

Verthandi
December 10th, 2004, 01:25 PM
sending prosperous energy your way :hugz:

Flar's Freyja
December 10th, 2004, 01:29 PM
Well, I've done the same with my own life :woah: - I wake up every day in a panic about money and keep reminding myself that Goddess has ALWAYS provided.

I'll pray for both of us together.

Lady Jade
December 10th, 2004, 05:31 PM
Thanks so much for your thoughts and prayers. Things will be ok I am sure of it, it's just occasionally I panic instead of trusting "Them" to handle things for me. May the Gods smile upon each and every one of us during this holiday season, may we all keep warm and have something to eat, and most of all continue to see the beauty in the simplicity of life.

blindfaith^_^
December 10th, 2004, 08:59 PM
sending you postive energy and supportive energy to help see you through :hugz: