lonely again

[Sage Rainsong]

Hey everyone. I know this is kinda self centered since so many other people have much worse problems but I am just feeling down. I'm having one of thoes Ill never find the man of my dreams or heck anyone half way decent. Im just really down and would apprciate any energy to spare.

[OriginalWacky]

Please don't even think that your problems are any less just because someone else's seems worse. Think of it this way, if I break a finger, is it going to feel any better jsut because my friend breaks her neck? Nope.

And there is nothing wrong with being a little bit self centered. How can you be there for anbody else if you don't take care of YOU? As far as the man of your dreams, I would never give up on that. I don't know how old you are, but I can say that I've known those who were several decades old before they found someone to spend the rest of their life with.

It could be true, you might not ever find the man of your dreams, or someone decent, but it's far more likely that you will find him when you least expect it. Try to keep positive thoughts, because whatever you think is what is most likely to come to you.

I'll be happy to light a candle for you.

[ëxø±î¢ §±å®]

Hey hun,

I'll do more then just give you some energy....I'll be here as someone you can always talk to, ANYTIME you're feeling down or just lonely. Please pm me sometimes, and rant, rave, discuss, etc. anything you want!

Remember though: as cliche as this sounds, life isn't a straight road. It has bumps, curves, and dead-ends at some of the most sporadic times, and it makes things interesting, to say the least. One other thing you have to think about is the fact that you need to experience the bad times in order to appreciate the good. :)

x0x! & remember, i'm always here!

[ObsidianSunrise]

:hugz: Never give up, the right person will be there at the right time. But until then heres' some positive, pick-me-up energy for you!

[Teresa]

:hugz: Dressing a candle for You !

[Verthandi]

Never give up, hon. You'll find the right man, maybe when you least expect to. :hugz: and energy

[PoisonIvy]

Just when I'd given up hope of ever finding a good man that wouldn't cheat on me or get drunk and hit me,then came a good friend who became my husband. When I stopped looking.....he found me. It will happen for you,hon! Never give up hope!
Blessed Be!

[audi]

take care hun. *hugs* :nyah:

[blackroseivy]

Oh my God, we are as TWINS in this!!! - I have something that is blocking me, old business near to impossible to take care of, though I'm going to give it my best shot; do you have anything in your past that might be a hindrance to your happiness? It might be worthwhile to consider what might be blocking you. My thoughts are certainly with you!! ;)

- Danubhe

[6th Angel]

Just as important!

Don´t worry
Be happy
Uuuu u hu hu uu uu uu uu
Don´t worry
Be happy now
Uuuu u hu hu uu uu uu uu
U uu uu uuuuuuu
:headphone

[Sage Rainsong]

Thanks everyone I am feeling better this weekend. You guys are great.

[magick_faerie]

that is what this thread is for, its not about whos requests are more important, we are all here for each other no matter what the reason, i go through those days myself so i know how you feel, my blessings to you, i hope you can learn to love yourself.
brightest blessings

fae

[~*Ginger*~]

:hugz:

[Chappy]

Do not worry or fret, I too have the same feelings and I am a man. It is ok to wonder, I believe that there is someone for everyone. There is a match out there and it could be Chinese, Swedish or blind you never know. It is ok to be self-centered as well. In Wicca the Goddess says you must take care of yourself and take the time to ask "what is in it for me?" Any individual has the right to be happy, that is the only way to spread happiness to others. Blessed Be