Not for me but for my ex

[MockingbirdOxygen]

This isn't exactly a request for me, although it will definitely make me feel better since it involves the father of my two oldest children!
I am going to be sending some comforting energy to my ex-husband, because when I took the kids by to see him this morning, he was really feeling bad. I mean, like very seriously depressed. I know he has been upset because the girl he had been living with for a while gave him the boot about a month ago. I am extremely worried about him, because he is already a pretty emotional person (which is why we're not together, since I'm the same way...doesn't mix well!) He says he won't do anything stupid like commit suicide or anything, because he knows the kids need him, but I'm still worried.
At first I caught myself wishing the girl would take him back, but I'm afraid if they are not really meant to be together, it will make things worse in the long run.
So I guess I'm just gonna muster up some good old "strength to get through it and comfort you" energy for him...if anyone else would like to lend some energy to this cause, I'd appreciate it.

[DivineAthena]

I hope he feels better soon.
Energy sent.

[Aleannah]

(((((positive energy sent))))) :hugz:

[Shanti]

I hope he feels better soon. Well wishes sent.

I still care for the well being of my adult sons father. We didnt work because he collects bibles, his only hobby. Very, very devout Christain but a good man at heart. I just couldnt change my spiritual path and he couldnt stay with a non-Christian. We were young, loved and tried. But parted friends after 3 years.

[Verthandi]

comforting energy sent

[Marishae]

Energy Sent! I hope all is well! =) :hugz: to both of you! =)

~Marishae~

[Teresa]

Sending energy !

[ObsidianSunrise]

Energy on the way to help him get balanced again.

[OriginalWacky]

I can donate to the cause.

[MockingbirdOxygen]

Thank you to all who responded to my energy request. I am sure that it helped! He seems to be doing much better, and in fact, when he comes to get the kids, he even seems to be trying extra hard to be nice to me and my current hubby. We have been snowed in sick this weekend, and when he came to get one of the kids' game rechargers last night, he even brought us chicken noodle soup and crackers...it feels so good to be getting along with him like this...since we couldn't be together, the next best thing is for us to both be happy and also get along with each other as friends. Thanks again for helping...if you haven't received karma for your energies, you will! Unfortunately, I don't always remember to check back and forth on my threads when my poker is revived for karma giving...but I try to catch up later, and I'm sure that caring folks like you are reaping in the "real" karma already! :hugz:
:fpeace:

[MockingbirdOxygen]

*Bump*
Thank you to all who responded to my energy request. I am sure that it helped! He seems to be doing much better, and in fact, when he comes to get the kids, he even seems to be trying extra hard to be nice to me and my current hubby. We have been snowed in sick this weekend, and when he came to get one of the kids' game rechargers last night, he even brought us chicken noodle soup and crackers...it feels so good to be getting along with him like this...since we couldn't be together, the next best thing is for us to both be happy and also get along with each other as friends. Thanks again for helping...if you haven't received karma for your energies, you will! Unfortunately, I don't always remember to check back and forth on my threads when my poker is revived for karma giving...but I try to catch up later, and I'm sure that caring folks like you are reaping in the "real" karma already! :hugz:
:fpeace:

Update, and warning that this is a bit of letting off steam also:
Ever feel like a kind deed is returned in a not so kind way? I asked for help with this ex's situation... I also asked him to be dealt with gently in an original situation he got himself into with a gun... overlooked the fact that his sister did his taxes the first year we split without my knowledge that they filed it as a JOINT RETURN which means you have the signatures of both parties...(there is a difference right? I mean he could claim me but don't I have to sign or at least see the tax papers to sign them... I think they had a loophole because it was filed online...)... prayed for his family when they were ill and done an energy request for them on here on a different thread ...missed out on the opportunity of a lifetime to move with my hubby's job to Oregon because my mother-in-law called and harassed me about it and told me I couldn't... and all along I've tried to keep the peace. We got along good but that apparently was only as long as I kept my mouth shut and didn't make waves. But... I'm tired of keeping it all in... and have to let out just a little (though not all the puzzle pieces) here and now.

After a long ordeal with the first gal (now the step mom) ... she apparently knew how to handle my ex-hubby better than I did, lol... he got upset at her few years ago when he caught her in the car with another gal outside a bar and went off... she ran over his foot ;P...etc... he hits walls instead of her, and apparently learned his lesson from a broken hand...etc etc ... anyway after all that... he got with a different girl on the rebound but eventually got back with first gal and married her. So I guess the good energies worked for awhile back then, and things have been quiet for a while except for him going off all emotional when I told him I didn't think it was best our oldest son come stay with them. Our combined situation may need them again... just some positive vibes that the ex will stay on an even keel, and that his family won't play dirty in order to get my son to go live there, (as I've been told). I let his family and their friends friend me online apparently only to find myself reading passive-aggressive posts that mimic my old "coincidence" ones... put there, I'm sure, to make me "wonder". Lord, please help me keep my heart open about this...because right now I'm feeling like an idiot for ever opening up to them. One of the sisters once warned me long ago not to trust them... but... I thought if I put it in the Creator's hands, that trust was all I would need. I don't want to shut them out completely because they are also blood relation to my son... but it is hard and I need all the positive energies I can get.

Anyway... so... my son's stepmom has now told him he is old enough to choose for himself and they can "make that happen" if he chooses it... but I don't see how he knows what is best at this point in his life. If you can't legally vote until you are 18, if you can't legally decide to drink until you are 21... how can you make a decision that will affect the rest of your life... because you want to move to a less strict household where you can play all the violent video games you want, your dad works nights and won't be on your butt...buys you porno mags, etc... well how can I blame his 15 yr old mind? What 15 yr old doesn't want more freedom? *Sigh* More freedom was needed... I have had to watch my son close growing up because of nut and fish allergies... so it is a little worse with him than my younger two. So the good thing that comes of this is the realization that I've done as much as I can do, and some things he is going to have to learn to handle on his own. I have been back and forth about it... sometimes I think maybe he should go, most of the time think maybe he shouldn't... I don't want him to hate me for holding him back, but how do I make him see my point of view also and not get himself into a situation that might be hard to reverse? We made a deal that we'd see how he did this year at being more responsible in school and taking care of matters himself, and then I'd think about it... so I backed off. He is doing terribly grade-wise because...he says so himself...he is lazy... and needs someone to keep after him.


At this point I don't know exactly what to ask for... and there are other people in dangerous situations out there that need energies more than mine, I know... so only if you feel motivated to send some positive vibes to our situation, it would be appreciated and may you be blessed for it. Just that things will work out smoothly as they should in the best interest of everyone involved... and for him and his dad if he does go, that they will not have flare ups with his dad's aggressive side... that the stepmom can find another way to quit work and finish school...and that I can find my way in this world again. Quitting music, trying different views on spirituality so I wouldn't seem so different from others and/or embarrass my kids ... I even tried hanging out with church folk, and while some of them are very nice, many of them are still hypocrites... and I now know that there is nothing wrong with the biblical interpretations I hold. My Creator doesn't just live in a church... the Creator lives everywhere. The Kingdom of Heaven is within me. Jesus tells me so. ;)

Whew, that was alot. Thanks if you're still reading this...

[taintedtragedy]

Defiantly sending some nice energy. My aunt is going through something along these lines, only her ex. buys my cousins atv's, ipods, cellphones, and such then doesn't react appropriately when they get in trouble (causing them to move back with my aunt and repeat the cycle).
You will get through this <3
oh, and in my personal opinion you are being wayyy to kind, if people are harassing you online don't be afraid to delete them.

[Sakurako]

Sending energy :)

[MockingbirdOxygen]

Thank you to all who replied both here and in karma boxes :hugz:



I guess I can respect at least that they are there for each other against other people, despite the fact that they've badmouthed each other at times. And I've tried to put myself in his family's shoes and understand how they feel about me... but some of it still doesn't make any sense... maybe nobody knows the whole story...

I just needed somewhere to get my thoughts out... it is hard to do... trying to like people who don't like you. So after I get it all out... I'm done with it and focusing only on the positive and finding the plus side in the situation. As my signature below reads... where attention goes, energy flows... I must remember to keep on track with that... back to the love and the light...