In need of good wishes.

[Tru<3]

Last Wednesday my father passed away. I've never experienced anything so horrible in my life. Its like just when I think i've gotten through a tough spot in my life, something else happens. I know it was his time, but that doesn't help anything. He had a life insurance policy but now they're trying to get out of paying the claim because he was only insured by them for 2 months. I had to turn his cremation over to the coroner b/c i couldnt afford the 1500 they were going to charge me at the funeral home (not that i have 750 any more than i had 1500)

Basically what i'm getting at is if you guys could please keep my family in your thoughts and wishes i'd appreciate it dearly. I dont know what to do...or what im going to do if the insurance company denies the claim.
My son is taking this very hard as well b/c he was closer to his grandfather than he was with anyone else in our family. Please please please...if anyone knows any ritual i could perform to help get us through this horrible time, please let me know.

Thank you in advance,
Tru <3
NOLAraves@aol.com

[Isis Sothis (Sothi)]

I send you and your family energy of healing and light. It has helped me in the past to meditate for awhile and concentrate on what it is that pains me or impedes my progress and roll it into any energy ball and shoot it up to the universal power or powers according to your beliefs...and ask it or them to take your pain and turn it into positive energy and ask that it or they help you to take way or lessen the pain so that you can move forward. This has helped me in the past.

Many Blessings

[WynnJera]

Love and energy sent and this difficult time :hugz:

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[Teresa]

Dressing a candle and sending Love and Light! :hugz:

[~*Ginger*~]

:hugz:

It's hard, just try to hang in there...

[QUEEN OF THE DAMNED]

My love and thoughts and best wishes are with you and your family at this tragic time. :hugz: :hugz:
*sending strength & healing energy to you and your family*

[Tru<3]

Thank you all...
i didnt realize it would be this hard...i just wish i could stop crying... :huddle:

[moria636]

sending best wishes and positive and very fortuneate energy to you and your family

[farm girl]

positive energy during your time of loss :hugz:

[Old Witch]

I'm so sorry for your loss...Energy sent for your entire family.

[Lunacie]

Sending huggs and energy for you. Don't try to deny the grief, but don't let it take over your life. When you find yourself feeling sad and crying, give yourself half an hour to simply feel the loss and the sadness. Then get up and go do something and focus on yourself or someone else in your life for a while. That really does help.

As far as the insurance, was your dad insured through his place of work? If so they may be able to help you in collecting on the policy. That helped us when my daughter's father died. If not, you may want to check with the insurance commisioner in your state (I think that's who to check with). Good luck with this.

[Tru<3]

Thanks for all the good advice.
i just love you guys!

[AutumnFire]

I lost my dad 3 years ago and to be honest it still hurts alot, but if you have love and wonderful memories, you never truley lose a loved one. My heart and thoughts are with you. Many blessings!